While it was just a TV show, that little speech at the beginning of the original Star Trek show really did do a good job of capturing our feelings about space. It is those feelings that drive our love of astronomy and our desire to learn more and more about it.
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Do you want to feel more connected, loved and adored in your relationship?
Are you ready to have more energy, stop fighting about little things, increase your confidence and experience loving touch.
I'm a sexologist - a sex doctor. And a relationship repair expert.
I help real people (like you) who are are looking for answers to problems with physical intimacy.
Sometimes my clients are in long term marriages. Sometimes they're not. But either way, my clients know I'll guide them using creative no-nudity exercises to create connection, pleasure and intimacy in their lives.
If that sounds like something you're interested in, keep reading. I'm here to help you.
I totally get that.
In 2009, I was too busy too.
I was Super Mom + life was filled with soccer, science projects, Girl Scout cookies, homework and lots and lots of driving - in my minivan.
I loved my kids and was passionate about being a Mom. But I was so caught up in the role that I totally forgot about the reset of my identity - my intellect, my femininity and my sexuality.
I wasn't "just a mom." I actually ran a small import business, but it focused on PTO fundraising. No shock there. So much of my life was dedicated to the role of mother that I even wore a floral dress to match my girls' dresses. To a wedding.
Yeah. I was that mom.
And if I'm truthful, I have to own the fact that over time I got stressed out + irritable.
I'd totally lost track of who I was as a sexual woman and I didn't even realize it. It wasn't until I almost lost my marriage in the middle of that busy mom thing that I woke up.
I couldn't believe this could happen to me - to us. We'd always been a smoking hot couple who couldn't keep our hands off each other. What had happened?
I wanted to know what had happened to my life as a sexual person. And I'm honored to say that I learned about sex in some of the sexiest places in the world including Amsterdan, Las Vegas and San Francisco. I became a Professional Sex Coach and eventually got a PhD in Human Sexuality.
Then, in 2016 I wrote the Amazon #1 Bestseller "Too Busy to Get Busy" so that other women could avoid the pitfalls I'd discovered.
My clients use the proven 5 step Lover's Journey Process and research based BEDROOM™ model to improve their own relationship, just like I did.
When did talking about intimacy get so difficult? Why can you talk easily about the kids, money, vacation plans and politics but s-e-x is off the table?
The problem is that when you don't talk about it, even the simple problems never get solved.
And you may be surprised to know - most of the problems are actually pretty darn simple. Yes - it's true.
Jane will help you find the harmony we are all seeking.
Arthur + Sophia
Married over 5 years, 2 kids
More helpful than months of counseling.
Steve + Elizabeth
Married over 10 years with one child
When you’re working long hours and the kids are in activities, it’s no wonder that “have sex” quickly loses a place at the top of the TO DO LIST. It’s challenging to even get the laundry done when you’re so busy. The dog is getting dirtier and dirtier. You’re paying for a gym membership but you can’t remember the last time you worked out. You fall asleep even before your head hits the pillow.
You know sex is important to your relationship, but how can you create sexual chemistry when you hardly have time to go to the bathroom by yourself?
Having trouble communicating? If so, you’re not alone. The problem is that you’ve been lied to by Hollywood, the Media and even your family to think that talking about sex isn’t something nice people do. Guess what? They were all wrong. The real fact is that when you don’t talk about sex things simply fall apart.
Starting the conversation can change your relationship for the good - even now. But you’ve got to learn HOW to have The Talk so you don’t make things even more awkward.
Do you struggle with uneven desire in your relationship? Maybe your partner wants to connect a lot more than you do. Or, maybe you’re the one who feels isolated and alone because your partner isn’t interested. Either way, when there’s a big gap in the level of openness to sex, it can be very challenging – even SOUL CRUSHING.
You know there’s a problem. What you probably don’t know is that there are actually simple solutions that you can learn today so that your relationship doesn’t become just another statistic.
When it comes right down to it, sex is physical. And while you may desire connection and intimacy in your relationship, if your body isn’t cooperating it’s tough to make that happen.
I work with couples and individuals who have all sorts of physical challenges. You may have a condition or disability that make connecting a whole lot less fun, exciting and satisfying than it once was. Whatever it is, there are tips and tricks available for you NOW that can transform intimacy for you and your partner.
You've got an active life and lots of friends. You know that you're basically a good person who's got a lot to share with a partner. Why is it that so many people (even people with horrid values and bad grooming) end up with great partners while you sit around with nothing but "me time" on a beautiful weekend? When you figure out how intimacy has shown up in your life up till now, and take a real look at what's going on today, you'll be able to finally get what you want and deserve from a relationship. Honest.
Too Busy to Get Busy” is based on my transformational research-based BEDROOM™ model – a new approach to sex that combines practical guidance with juicy exercises so that you can finally have the kind of intimacy that you have secretly desired all your life.
“Too Busy to Get Busy” is the perfect read if you’re looking for a common sense and practical guide to making love work for you in the middle of a busy life.
Read what one of my clients said to me after she finished the book…
“Jane, when I finished reading your book, I broke into tears. I finally knew that I wasn’t broken.” ~E.K.
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